Children plant daffodils to remember loved ones

Friday, Nov. 07, 2008
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The Menchaca family plants daffodils in remembrance of their daughter and sister Maria Del Carmen Menchaca, who was fatally shot in a drive-by shooting July 6, 2008, and in remembrance of other victims of gun violence.IC photo by Christine Young

SALT LAKE CITY — "The rate of firearm deaths of those under 14 years of age is nearly 12 times higher in the United States than in 25 other industrialized countries combined," said Dee Rowland, chairwoman of the board for the Gun Violence Prevention Center. "Firearms are the second-leading cause of death, after motor vehicle accidents for young people ages 1 to 19 in the U.S., according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention."

The Sixth Annual Daffodil Day of Remembrance was held at the Unity Center in the Glendale neighborhood Oct. 24. The Gun Violence Prevention Center of Utah (GVPC) sponsored the day, in support of the YWCA’s "Week Without Violence."

"This is a beautiful morning, but it is an occasion that makes us all slow down and stop," said Salt Lake City Mayor Ralph Becker. "This past year in our community, and in this neighborhood, in particular, we have experienced some great tragedies as a result of senseless acts of gun violence. Our loved ones have been taken from us because of gun violence. Those loved ones were somebody’s father, son, daughter, sister, friend, student, and classmate. This has brought about so much hurt, pain, sorrow, fear, and loss.

"To help us cope and to give us hope, we are planting daffodil bulbs for a brighter day. Just like planting these bulbs in the soil, we plant the seeds of hope in our hearts and in healing and happiness," said Mayor Becker. "On this gorgeous autumn day, colorful leaves die and fall to the ground. The earth will soon be blanketed with snow and the days will be cold and dark and dreary, but this, too will give way to a new growth at the joy of spring.

"Our lives also experience seasons," said the Mayor. "We must plant seeds of hope today for a better tomorrow. Someone said flowers are the sunshine for food and the medicine to the soul. I am hopeful that as students come out and play in the fields at Riley Elementary School next spring, they will look over at the blooming yellow and white daffodils that were planted as bulbs here today and will feel the sense of wellness, peace and hope. I hope you children that are here today will realize that success, happiness, and self worth do not come from violence. Communities need to work hand-in-hand. Mahatma Gandhi said it so well. ‘If we are to have real peace in the world, we will have to begin with the children.’"

Keri E. Jones, YWCA chief program officer, said, "I work for the YWCA, and we have been a part of this community for more than 100 years. During that time we have tried hard to keep women and children safe in our community. But we cannot do it alone. We need the help of every person in our community to help keep people safe. So I am asking all of you to help me today. Will you make a promise with me today? Put up your hand up and say together, ‘My hands won’t hurt. My hands will help.’

"It wasn’t that long ago that I was talking with a friend who had lived at the YWCA," said Jones. "She is 7 years old and she came there to be safe with her mother and her brother. She asked me why do people fight? We talked about that and decided we do not have all of the answers, and we do not understand all of the answers. But we decided together that what was important was that at the YWCA people do not fight, and at schools, people do not fight, and a home, people do not fight.

"It is important to our community in keeping those places safe," said Jones. "So I want to make a promise to all of you today, that the YWCA will always be a safe place for you. In our community, the YWCA will work together with Mayor Becker, the GVPC, and with many other people to make sure that your schools, homes, and communities are safe. I want to thank Dee Rowland for putting this event together in conjunction with the "Week Without Violence," our annual campaign to bring awareness to violence in our community, and I think today is the picture perfect opportunity of hope that if we do work together, we will eradicate violence in our community."

LeAnn Banco, Riley Elementary counselor, said "We promote non-violence and we promote peace. There has been a lot of violence in the neighborhood and classmates have been killed. Their brothers and sisters have been murdered here in this community, and this gives them a chance to remember them. Every year when the flowers come up, they will think of them, and remember they participated in making the community a better place. This is very healing for the children who lost a sibling or a relative.

"We use conflict resolution, and so we are teaching the students the Steps to Respect Program so they learn how to get along with each other, and how to communicate without violence. Our country is at war, and there is a lot of violence in this community, so you need to start young to teach them there are other ways to solve problems besides using violence. They are really receptive at this age."

Steve Gunn joined the GVPC because he was concerned about the level of gun violence he saw in our society, and he was swayed by the fact that there did not seem to be any voice in Utah that was raising the alarm concerning unrestricted carrying and ownership of firearms.

"I could see the power of the National Rifle Association (NRA), but there did not seem to me to be any organization that was speaking out against seemingly unrestricted possession and ownership of firearms. I had not lost anyone close. I did not gain an interest because of a tragedy in my family, but I have great sorrow for those who have."

"I want to thank Dee Rowland who has been an incredible leader for us in this community, whether it has been gun violence, caring for children, or caring for people in so many ways," said Mayor Becker. I want to thank the families and the children who are here from Riley Elementary. I know you have suffered from the violence in your community and you are continuing to deal with that. I would also like to thank the YWCA and Keri Jones for making this event possible and for working so hard as it relates to violence throughout our community and in our families.

"Finally I want to acknowledge the anti-gun violence organization, who for many years have been working to establish policies at the state and local levels to limit inappropriate guns in our communities, which can only help but further the ability of all of us to live in a peaceful way. This is a sad day, but a day of hope."

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